English Communication Tip: Responding to – “How are you?”
In our daily lives we have to greet dozens of people each day – the barista, your work colleagues, the bus driver, your friend, etc. And, unless you know how to respond appropriately to each person, in each situation, greeting people can be a challenge.
In this
English Communication Tip, you are going to learn 3 simple rules to keep in mind when people greet you.
Golden Rules: Responding to “How are you?”
1. Keep it short: In most situations, a greeting is a simple pleasantry. Say ‘Hi’ and keep on moving.
2. Reciprocate: If someone greets you, make sure you ask them how they are. This simple act of greeting someone will help you build rapport with them.
3. Be interested: Yes, it is just a greeting, but you must care about what the other person says – and respond in the correct way. Just by being interested in this person they are likely to see you in a good light.
Examples
Situation: Two people in the office.
Bill: Hey, Jeff. Having a good day?
Jeff: Yeah, how about you?
Situation: Talking to the barista.
Sara: How are you?
Ted: Me? I’m Great! I just got a new job. How ‘bout you?
Sara: I’m great also, but tell me about your new job.
Situation: A son talking to his father
Son: How you been keeping, dad?
Father: Can’t complain. How about you? Still dating Mary?